| 该用户匿名发帖 发表于 2008-10-31 20:15 只看TA 1楼 |
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我这么做错了么？ 我觉得我做的没什么错，大家给我点意见。我很爱我的女朋友，我以前只是自己在电脑前自己打手枪，不是没有女朋友，我真的想把我们的第一次留到新婚。有句话叫“一个新婚床两只旧鸳鸯”我不想那样。我一直很小心的维护我们这段爱情。 就在1个月前我们谈婚论嫁可是她居然和我说她以前有过性经历。只有头疼，头疼，头疼。心里好象要怎么样似的。 我说我要好好考虑了，现在我虽然没和她说但是我想和她分手。真的希望大家给我点意见，麻烦SIS的朋友了。 |
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| jeslinha 发表于 2008-10-31 20:23 只看TA 2楼 |
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| first of all, u need to think whether u can still be together with her and won't keep on thinking this kind of question(she is not a virgin but u are and u cant accept her). second, can u make sure u won't mention this thing out when u quarrel with her next time? third, will u blame her always after both of u get married? fourth, what's your viewpoint about virginity and marriage? sometimes your point f view will change, when i am still single i mean when i haven;t fall in love before, i also think it is best to left sex happen after marriage, but when i met my girfriend and she is not a virgin and yet she love me so much, i accept her even though at first i also have the same problem and thought just like u, but now i can deal with it, it is not big deal as long she doesn;t find guys outside after married. the most important thing is u need to think further whether u can accept her and do both of u have the same point of u at the first stage when u decided to get together? |
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| dht183 发表于 2008-10-31 20:30 只看TA 5楼 |
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| 兄弟，看开点，现在找没有性经历的女人哪那么好找！只要人不错，对你不错，那就行了。楼主居然想把第一次留到新婚之夜，楼主傻的好可爱。 |
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| sislove 发表于 2008-10-31 20:37 只看TA 8楼 |
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| 真正的爱一个人会在乎她的一切 但是如果你真的很爱她 就要包容她的一切 爱现在的她吧 何必活在那样的苛刻中呢 给她机会也就是给你机会 |
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